{"id":2192,"date":"2023-02-24T20:13:56","date_gmt":"2023-02-24T20:13:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2192"},"modified":"2025-11-28T06:19:20","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T06:19:20","slug":"add-to-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/2023\/02\/24\/add-to-my-life\/","title":{"rendered":"ADD to my life!"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2192\" class=\"elementor elementor-2192\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64d0ceca e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"64d0ceca\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31648083 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"31648083\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was off for the month of December. I didn&#8217;t like being off work but things had just got too much. I hoped to catch up with myself but instead I just sat around with the equivalent of recently cooked pasta in my head.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thanks to Radio 4, yes some people still listen, I clicked on a link to take an ADHD online test. Now this appears to be the latest trend, and as someone initially sceptical of students claiming ADHD , I wasn&#8217;t sure what to expect. However, I didn&#8217;t expect it to match me so thoroughly. Check for yourself below. I don&#8217;t have substance misuse; never touched a cigarette or taken any drugs other than that prescribed by a Dr and the occasional glass of -OH, but I do use food as a soother! I am also almost never late, including being seven minutes early for my own wedding, but that was something drilled in to my by family.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-3-no-2\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-3\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Task<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">Link<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Scenario<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Scenario.pptx\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Scenario<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">User Manual<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/instruction-manual-for-the-boxv2.docx\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instructions A5<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/instruction-manual-for-the-box-reduced-v2.docx\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instructions 1xA4 8 to a page<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 1: Grid<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-1-Radiation-WORD-clue.docx\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Grid<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 2: Receipt<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-2-receipt-clue-2.docx\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Shop receipt<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 3: Questions<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-3-questions-radiation-v3.docx\">questions radiation v3<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-3-questions-radiation-v3.docx\">questions radiation v3<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 4: Half Life<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-4-Half-Life.docx\">Half Life<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 4: Half Life graphs<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-4-half-life-graphs.xlsx\">half life graphs<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 5: Guess What<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-5-Guess-who-cards.docx\">Guess who cards<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Task 6: Diagram<\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-6-Chain-reaction-v2.docx\">Chain reaction v2<\/a><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/blog\/2022\/05\/Task-6-Chain-reaction-advanced.docx\">Chain reaction advanced<\/a><br \/>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So where has this left me?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I feel quite liberated that many of those traits that I hate in myself can be discovered to be part of this. It explains why I can&#8217;t sit through meetings without my mind wandering and why I always take copious notes to try to keep me focused and following the thread, and it explains why I don&#8217;t really remember much in the past. It explains why I but in and finish people&#8217;s sentences, and if I&#8217;ve ever done that to you I apologise now. For me, everything is clearer.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I now understand why I&#8217;ve never given a good interview in my life and why, despite hours of planning I throw it away in impulsive comments. I know I wouldn&#8217;t give myself a job based on how I perform in an interview, but maybe now people will consider other things I&#8217;ve done. From being plaqued by my lack of success in moving up the greasy pole of promotion I understand that the real problem wasn&#8217;t my lack of ability to do the job, but the lack of adaptation in the interview process to see the best in a large group of the population. I am not making excuses you understand, but it allows me to free myself from the self-hatred of thinking that I am pretty useless at most things.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There have been some amazing benefits of this too.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suddenly I can identify symptoms in others, as clearly as holding a mirror up and viewing myself.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t think I would have achieved so many interesting things in my teaching career but for the rapid boredom of the mundane<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The GP says I don&#8217;t meet the threshold for a diagnosis on the NHS so I will ponder what it means. However, with OH giving me ticks for all symptoms except crossing out dangerous driving for careless driving, and a GP friend saying he&#8217;d known about this for years; I can now start explaining so much about myself. It is as if a cloud had lifted and what is left behind is a beautiful clear view for miles around.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to keep posted of what happens in my journey I think you can subscribe to mrsphysics.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I would say suddenly the pasta head felt like it had been rinsed and was so much lighter. I&#8217;ll try to get an image of what I mean.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-8913\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsphysics-co-uk.stackstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819-460x460.jpg 460w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-200819.jpg 817w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/neurodivergentinsights.com\/misdiagnosis-monday\/adhd-vs-adhd\">https:\/\/neurodivergentinsights.com\/misdiagnosis-monday\/adhd-vs-adhd<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-8914\" src=\"https:\/\/mrsphysics-co-uk.stackstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-201234-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-201234-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2023-02-24-201234.jpg 482w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e1515b0c027eaeaaa7232dae92981146?s=80\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-172\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mrsphysics.co.uk\/bge\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/Signature-300x54.png\" alt=\"Signature\" width=\"269\" height=\"48\" \/>\n<figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">February 2023<\/figcaption>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 I was off for the month of December. I didn&#8217;t like being off work but things had just got too much. I hoped to catch up with myself but instead I just sat around with the equivalent of recently cooked pasta in my head. Thanks to Radio 4, yes some people still listen, I&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[880],"tags":[1123,1124,1125,942],"ppma_author":[1267],"class_list":["post-2192","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anythingelse","tag-adhd","tag-attention-deficit-disorder","tag-discovery","tag-mrsphysics","vs-blog blog-single wow fadeInUp"],"acf":[],"authors":[{"term_id":1267,"user_id":3,"is_guest":0,"slug":"n5","display_name":"Mrs Physics","avatar_url":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/OK-scaled.png","author_category":"","first_name":"Mrs","last_name":"Physics","user_url":"","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2192","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2192"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2192\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8917,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2192\/revisions\/8917"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2192"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2192"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2192"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mrsphysics.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=2192"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}